I have always been somewhat shy and even telling my husband that I thought he was attractive or liked him when we were first dating was difficult for me. Not because I didn’t feel those things, but because I had difficulty putting them into words that didn’t cause me to blush or stammer. I recently found my nerve, put aside my shyness and have been expressing my language of desire in more adult terms and my husband loves it.
My husband and I have been married for fifteen years and have a very nice life living in the suburbs with great jobs. We decided to not have children and that has made us very free in our lives. We have traveled a bit and are usually the last to leave parties, not having to worry about getting babysitters home or getting kids up for school in the morning, but we are very conservative people. While we appear to be very open and free to others, at home, we led a very proper and quiet life.
Recently my husband has been working with some new clients that are a bit younger and a bit rowdier. They use rougher language, tell dirty jokes, but are a lot of fun to spend time with. When my husband has asked me to accompany him as he entertained the clients and their wives, I found myself slowly but surely using the same language and being far more open with sexual comment about my husband. We would routinely come home after an evening out with them and have great sex that even we didn’t believe was possible.
It turns out that both my husband and myself thoroughly enjoy using adult language in expressing our desire for one another and during our sexual relations. What used to make me blush before is now a huge turn on for both of us!